By MARIE WILSON
Q. One of my senior staff has told me that they are resigning to take a post with a lot more money, with our competitor. Should I match the offer to see if I can get them to stay?
A. Generally speaking, no. While money is often mentioned when someone quits, it is often not the real reason for their move.
Claiming a higher salary is one way of communicating that they think they are valued more elsewhere, or it may just be a socially acceptable way of telling you that they are leaving rather than criticising anything about their current workplace - they still might need a letter of reference at some point.
Research suggests that most employees have already made a decision to leave when they give notice, and trying to get them to re-commit to their existing employer doesn't last for very long, not to mention potentially playing havoc with your pay systems - and teaching other employees that the way to get a pay raise is to get an offer from elsewhere. If they are a mission-critical employee and their leaving really could dramatically affect the organisation, you may want to offer a fixed-term bonus to finish existing work before leaving.