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The writers and publisher of a book offering advice on how to cope with sudden death hope it will will benefit thousands of New Zealanders confronted with the unexpected loss of a family member or friend.
Written by three specialists and launched yesterday by the Chief Coroner, Judge Neil MacLean, Death Without Warning is a handbook of tips and advice on getting through one of life's toughest times.
It has been produced by Skylight, a non-profit organisation which provides support to children, young people and their families through trauma, change, loss, and grief, regardless of its cause.
Co-author Tricia Irving Hendry, Skylight's resource and information centre manager, said that each year more than 500 people died as a result of accidents at home, and up to 1000 more died unexpectedly as a result of road accidents, drownings, suicides, murders or cot death.
"There is absolutely no way of being prepared to hear the news that someone close to you has suddenly died. It's incredibly hard," she said.
Death Without Warning covers a wide range of topics including finding help from support services, the role of the different professionals - including the coroner - what the post-mortem examination is for, organ donation and arranging a funeral.
It also helps families through legal issues such as dealing with the will and the individual's personal affairs.
The book provides expert information on experiencing shock and grief, caring for grieving children and teens, and post-traumatic stress.
One of its main messages is that there is no right or wrong way to react or grieve.
- NZPA
