Ian Ross abandoned Tania Norden-Ross with a cup of soup about 6.30am today. She stayed in the van, parked up at the Spirits Bay camp ground, while he set off with his fishing rod for the beach. There was an unmistakable curl of the lip when he reported back with a kahawai. Smoked is okay, she says.
"She's spoiled," said Mr Ross. "Too much snapper, hapuka, scallops, kingfish." The fishing has always been good for Mr Ross, it seems, but it got better since they moved from Auckland to Paparoa. Don't tell anyone, but the Kaipara Harbour is amazing fishing if you know what you're doing.
For this couple (he's 43 and she's 49) the happiness they found outside the city is the story which bubbles out, almost without prompting.
"You look at the Auckland market and think 'we would have made a huge capital gain," says Mr Ross. "But measure it against how happy we are...".