People are beginning to lighten up in the way they choose to leave us.
An increasing number of people are shunning sombre send-offs and opting to put the fun in funerals, undertakers say.
Aucklander Tracey Maule-Cooper and her sister, Deane Butt, organised colourful goodbyes for their Remuera parents, who died within a fortnight of each other.
When artist Jacqueline Maule died in July, aged 84, she was buried in a coffin decorated with pictures of lush native ferns. Her husband of 63 years, Derek, 87, who built the maternity and babywear retail chain Lady in Waiting, was farewelled with a special service written and conducted by the family at home.
"Mum chose the casket herself because she thought the ferns were gorgeous," Maule-Cooper said.