Givealittle page for family of 6yo Auckland boy who died after tonsil surgery at Southern Cross hospital

The boy died on Monday at Starship children's hospital after undergoing surgery last week at a Southern Cross hospital in Auckland.

• A 6-year-old boy died after tonsil surgery, leading to an outpouring of community support.
• A Givealittle page was set up to help the family with funeral costs and expenses.
• Police and Health NZ are investigating the incident, with several high-level inquiries under way.

A family whose 6-year-old boy died after tonsil surgery has suffered “unimaginable loss” but is humbled by the outpouring of love and compassion.

Lily, a close friend of the boy’s mother, says the community is wrapping the family in support in their darkest hour.

Many people had been deeply moved by the family’s loss and wanted to help in any way they could, so Lily had set up a Givealittle page to help with funeral costs and associated expenses.

“I’m a close friend of the mother of the beautiful little boy who tragically passed away at Starship Hospital on Monday, April 7th, 2025,” Lily wrote.

“Since this unimaginable loss, the family have been humbled by the outpouring of love, compassion, and support from people in our community.

“Many have reached out, asking how they can help. In response, I’ve set up this Givealittle page to support this grieving family as they navigate the darkest days of their lives.”

All donations would go directly towards supporting the family — “giving them space, care, and comfort as they begin to heal”.

“Your kindness means more than words can express. Thank you for wrapping this family in love during such an incredibly difficult time.”

The Givealittle page has a link to the Herald’s coverage of the tragedy.

Beloved boy to be farewelled with ‘celebration of life’ ceremony

The little boy will be farewelled tomorrow at an emotional ceremony dubbed a celebration of the youngster’s life.

Organisers are preparing for a big turnout.

A source told the Herald that following the surgery last week, the boy was monitored at the private hospital for a couple of days before being discharged home.

But on Thursday last week he complained of pain in his throat, started vomiting blood and then collapsed.

An ambulance rushed to the family’s West Auckland home and took him to Starship children’s hospital.

The boy died on Monday at Starship children's hospital after undergoing surgery last week at a Southern Cross hospital in Auckland. Photo / Greg Bowker

It’s understood the boy had stopped breathing and hospital scans showed he was effectively brain dead.

He died on Monday surrounded by family after life support was switched off.

Police said they visited Starship on Monday evening after a sudden death and were now making inquiries on behalf of the Coroner.

It’s understood a post-mortem examination was being carried out before the boy’s body was released to the family.

A source told the Herald the parents are in the throes of grief.

“The mum and dad are really struggling. The mum is trying to hold it together because she has a 4-year-old as well.

“She’s preparing for the funeral. She’s going through all the things she has to do.”

Fatal complications from routine procedure ‘extremely rare’

Surgeons spoken to by the Herald said a tonsillectomy was one of the most common of all surgical operations and thousands were performed annually.

Fatal complications were extremely rare.

Ministry of Education North leader Isabel Evans said officials were liaising with the boy’s school.

“The ministry extends our deepest sympathies to the family and the wider school community during this incredibly difficult time. We have offered the school our support and are available for as long as needed.”

Several high-level investigations are under way into what was supposed to have been a routine day procedure and recovery.

The source said there were many unanswered questions.

“It’s a very standard operation. It just doesn’t make any sense.”

Mike Shepherd, Health New Zealand group director of operations at Auckland City Hospital, confirmed an investigation had begun.

“We extend our deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences to this family for the loss of their child.

“Our clinicians are working closely with Southern Cross Healthcare to carry out a review of the care provided and are liaising with the family.”

Dr Erica Whineray Kelly, Southern Cross Healthcare chief medical officer, said the organisation was “devastated” a patient had died after surgery and was supporting Health NZ’s review.

Lane Nichols is Auckland desk editor and a senior journalist for the New Zealand Herald with more than 20 years in the industry.

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