The last moments of Alesana Seneka's life continue to play out in the mind of his brother-in-law, whose desperate effort to save him at Papamoa Beach this week was not enough.
Lotau Kapua and his family gathered at his Dickson St home yesterday, mourning Mr Seneka's death.
Mr Seneka, from Auckland, drowned at Papamoa Beach on Tuesday night after going to retrieve some cray pots that had been placed just beyond the breakers.
On a couch Mr Kapua sat stoic, the grief and shock of what had happened etched into his face.
"It is just something we didn't expect to happen,'' he said softly.