If obeying a few basic rules, going to school, reading, asking questions and asking for help are considered the norm in your house and in the classroom, there's absolutely no reason children shouldn't reach their full potential.
It was disturbing to read this week that a masters student's thesis found a group of maths teachers had few expectations their Maori and Pacific Island students would amount to much.
The study involved 15 maths teachers from five secondary schools in Auckland.
Hana Turner, a blonde, blue-eyed teacher of Ngati Ranginui descent, was shocked at some of the teachers' attitudes and believes they wouldn't have been so forthright if they had thought she was Maori.
Their expectations were highest for Asian students, then Pakeha and Pacifica kids and a long way down the track came Maori.