Former prison guard David Benbow was yesterday found guilty of killing his childhood friend Mike McGrath. No body or weapon has ever been found. His estranged partner Joanna Green, who had just left Benbow and started seeing McGrath, emerged as a key witness in the high-profile trial and subsequent retrial. Kurt Bayer reports on a love triangle that ended in murder.
The day she thought “this is it” and finally moved out, Joanna Green rang Mike. Michael McGrath, the ever-dependable family friend, the skilful carpenter who had built their kids’ playhouse and elaborate, sweeping deck. The “lovely, lovely man”, good-looking too, who always cared about her and her children.
She knew Dave Benbow - her partner of 17 years - wouldn’t take this well. So, she needed help.
Turning off the CCTV cameras at their lifestyle block on the southern fringes of Christchurch, which Benbow “obsessed” over, she was emotional. She was leaving a “toxic” relationship, one she couldn’t handle anymore, her and the kids’ stuff piled up in the trailer.
It would take two years for Benbow to be arrested and charged with McGrath’s murder.
In the High Court at Christchurch this year, at an initial trial that ended in a hung jury, and then a retrial which ended this week, the Crown alleged that Benbow lured McGrath to his semi-rural lifestyle property in Halswell on Monday, May 22, 2017. It claimed he used his .22 semi-automatic rifle - which has also since disappeared - with suppressor and sub-sonic ammunition, to shoot him dead and then dispose of his body, just weeks after learning he was seeing Green and telling a counsellor he wanted to “annihilate” him.
Green gave evidence at both trials.
She explained what led to her taking their two children and walking out on March 3, 2017 - two months before McGrath’s disappearance.
She claimed Benbow had controlled all of their finances and bank accounts, saying he’d been obsessed with property and money.
“Our family came second to money,” Green told the court.
In February 2017, she told Benbow she “can’t do it anymore” and wanted him to move out. He refused.
So on March 3, 2017, without telling her partner, she organised to leave.
McGrath, whom she had known for the last 17 years and whom she always thought highly of, volunteered to help.
“He said, ‘I’d do anything for you bar rob a bank’,” Green told the court.
On the day she moved out, she made a phone call to police, saying she had “no idea how [Benbow] would react” and wanted to be “covering my bases” and have a record that she was leaving a “toxic relationship”.
Afterwards, she felt “so relieved” and although nothing had happened between her and McGrath before then, she now felt she could act on her feelings towards him.
“I’ve always adored him and respected him and now I had a chance of getting the icing on the cake,” she said.
“He was just such a good man and the opportunity came along.
“I asked him if he would teach me how to kiss and be touched. I trusted him that much.”
They discussed whether it would ruin their friendship but McGrath told her: “You could be my soulmate”.
“He was a good-looking man and very kind. We got on so well. He was a lovely, lovely man. He cared about me and my children and our welfare,” Green said.
Once together, McGrath would come for tea or bike over once her children were in bed.
Green didn’t want the kids or Benbow to know she was seeing McGrath.
“We didn’t want to hurt anyone. I didn’t want to hurt Dave. It was none of his business but he also didn’t need to be hurt by that,” she said.
But one of her children saw McGrath and her kissing and told Benbow.