This is what irritates me about Jacinda caving to Australian Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull. This was her Tampa moment, her time to shine and walk the talk.
And yet she has said nothing when Turnbull placated her with a "maybe" because they're waiting for Trump to honour a deal made with Australia when Obama was in charge.
Trump has claimed it is the "worst deal ever" and has little appetite for refugees. They haven't even agreed on a number. Meanwhile, hundreds are in third world conditions which are getting worse by the hour.
I understand that we must be diplomatic in our relationship with our Anzac neighbour. And I think Jacinda has done so with her response to Australia hiking uni fees for Kiwis by three times the current amount. She has said she can't let that slide, and fair enough.
She hasn't been aggressive, and dealt with this blow from Australia well. John Key did the same when Australia slashed entitlements for Kiwis living there. Both leaders dealt the hand they were played with admirable temperament.
But here's the kicker - the 606 refugees stranded on Manus Island have, legally, nothing to do with Australia. The courts found it was illegal to have them held in Papua New Guinea and so they shut them down.
Now they have been days without food, water and sanitation. One recently needed urgent medical attention.
They fear to move because the locals are antagonising them and have made it clear they are not wanted. Jacinda does not have to talk to Turnbull at all.
Here's where practicality and principle provide the best outcome for everyone. Jacinda can broker a deal with Papua New Guinea, include the refugees in our official United Nations quota and bring this humanitarian crises to a close.
She makes a bold stand against an Australia who is increasingly dismissive of us, and once again raises New Zealand's profile on the international stage.
She makes up for the quasi-disaster that was the selection of Trevor Mallard by being a strong leader. And Turnbull no longer has to worry about the increasing domestic political ramifications.
And let's be real, Turnbull is worried about "boat people" coming to Australia. Well, they're desperate. They will come regardless. And they're not "queue jumpers" - they're bona fide refugees.
Nobody in a position where they place their lives in jeopardy to board a rickety boat facilitated by a shady people smuggler and cross the ocean is going to care about Australasian grandstanding.
I think it's feasible. It is principled and idealist. But we need that in a Government. And frankly, it's the right thing to do.
• Damon Rusden is a Green Party member who ran as a candidate in the 2017 election.
