Bungles by a string of government agencies and ministers have left the parents of Anzac Day crash victim Ben Carson feeling abandoned.
Thirty months after Ben was killed when an air force Iroquois helicopter crashed, Andrew and Pauline Carson have lost faith in the ability of New Zealand to look after its own.
The errors range from massive to almost meaningless.
At the lesser end of the scale, Prime Minister John Key wrote to apologise for the errors which had troubled the family - and dated the letter two months before the crash, when Ben was still alive. At the greater end, the Government completely bungled its health and safety investigation into the crash - there was confusion over whose job it was and it never got done.
The air force has recognised errors in dealing with families of the three airmen killed. An investigation has been underway for 18 months to establish the extent of the mishandling.