According to a survey from the Commission for Financial Capability, 58 per cent of us don't talk to our partner about how much we earn.
We're even quieter when it comes to retirement planning. Even for those aged 55 to 64, only 52 per cent of us have talked to our partner about what the plan is for our golden years.
There can be good reasons for keeping quiet, but these numbers are seriously high.
It links in with another stat – 69 per cent of New Zealanders are worried about money.
And honestly, anything we're not talking about is something we're anxious about.
Just talking about it can be the key to getting it under control.
For the latest Cooking the Books podcast I talked to Tom Hartmann, from the Commission for Financial Capability.
We discussed why so many of us are stressed about money, and why talking about it can help.
For the interview, watch the video podcast here:
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