It has long been a bad habit of New Zealand that just when we have a chance to beat Australia at something, we choke. For a while, with the Rugby World Cup, it looked like we might be getting over that.
We started well back in the late 1800s and early 1900s - we adopted our flag before Australia adopted its similar one. But when New Zealanders find voting papers in their letterboxes this week asking if they want to change that flag, it seems likely many will say no.
Even some in Australia are urging New Zealand to beat them in this race. The Ausflag group promoting change in Australia (and better funded than its New Zealand counterpart) took out an advertisement in the Herald yesterday urging us to "end the confusion" between the flags: "Ditch the Jack and show the world you've grown up".
A look on Ausflag's website includes a picture of the flag-raising ceremony for the women's rowing pairs at the 2012 Olympic Games. United Kingdom won gold, Australia silver and New Zealand the bronze. "It looked like Mother England teaching her two children to fly," the website remarks. "Britain, Little Britain and Littler Britain."
Disgruntlement at the similarity in designs is not new. The Herald archives include a story from 1870, a year after our current flag had been approved, though only for shipping. It makes an arch observation that the adoption of a similar design "by a neighbouring colony" (likely Victoria, whose new 1870 flag was a near-copy of the New Zealand one) was its "colonial badge". "Our Australian brethren followed suit and partially copied us."