One moment they were splashing in the surf. The next, Darren Lloyd and his partner's father, Perry Meehan, were fighting for their lives.
Only Lloyd would make it to shore alive.
Today he and Meehan's widow, Jody, shared their grief in an interview with Stuff, and sounded a warning for beach-goers after the Hamilton father died while swimming at Coromandel's Onemana Beach on Boxing Day.
"We just went in for fun and it all happened so fast," Lloyd told Stuff.
They were in waist-deep water outside the flagged area when three or a four large waves sent them struggling.