COMMENT: Being in the public eye is never an easy place to be, particularly in a country the size of New Zealand, it's a village.
It seems that everyone knows something about everyone else. In this country's case it isn't six degrees of separation, where we are six or fewer steps away from being connected to each other, it's probably more like three.
There are many times we'd like many more steps to separate us from each other which surely must be the feeling going through the mind of Deputy Police Commissioner Wally Haumaha at the moment.
He was appointed by the Government as the second most important cop in the country in May but it's only now his comments and friendships are coming back to haunt him.
It's been said you are who you are by virtue of the company you keep. Haumaha's certainly kept some pretty dodgy company in the past. He was a friend and continued to be a friend with the cops who were accused of raping Louise Nicholas in 1984 and 20 years later a cop told an investigation that Haumaha described the allegations as a nonsense and that nothing really happened adding "we have to stick together".