There is nothing more distressing for politicians than for their families to be dragged into scuttlebutt - but unfortunately it's been done all too often.
Jacinda Ardern's partner Clarke Gayford was a ripe target for trolls. He was in the social pages long before he'd ever hooked up with Ardern, he was a man about town.
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The false rumours surrounding Gayford were widespread and persistent over a number of months. They were being talked about the length and breadth of the country - and had reached a frenzy when Ardern returned last week from rubbing shoulders with royalty at Buckingham Palace with Gayford at her side.
I sent Ardern a text last Thursday outlining what was being said (as if she needed to be told) and suggested she or her partner should address them and offered her a media platform to do it. The only reply came from her chief press secretary, insisting that the rumours were false and saying she wouldn't be commenting on them. He appeared convinced they'd go away.