The past week has been a lesson for Labour and for its new leader Jacinda Ardern.
Politics is a goldfish bowl, anything that's done under the party banner whether it's a fundraising cake stall, or a gathering of idealistic youth wanting to soak up and indulge in the bonhomie of the brother and sisterhood, has the potential of being in the public eye.
What went on at the Young Labour summer camp is now being investigated by a lawyer.
A drunken yobbo falling over four 16-year-olds and being deeply remorseful and unable to remember the groping the next day isn't something you'd expect the Prime Minister to have to be fronting up to the nation on.
The biggest failure of the Labour Party's general secretary Andrew Kirton it seems was to leave the youngsters to sort it out themselves - and to only take it seriously when Cabinet Minister Megan Woods was written to by one if the four asking "s'up" when he'd heard nothing about how his groping complaint had been handled.