"These people are not stupid or acting dangerously."
Patuki also lost four family members - Peter Topi, 78, Tania Topi, 41, and 9-year-olds Shaine Topi-Tairi and Sailor Trow-Topi - in the 2006 muttonbirding accident.
Yesterday, divers continued a search for any sign of the four still missing while family members attended a meeting at 11am yesterday at a local marae.
Afterwards they asked to be left alone, with some of the family members confronting the media outside with a haka.
The Invercargill and Bluff community was also awaiting news, with many connected to the families of those on board.
Nine people were on board the vessel when it sank after being hit by a rogue wave just after midnight on Wednesday.
The only survivor, Dallas Reedy, 44, was rescued after clinging to a petrol can for 18 hours.
Four bodies - Topi, John Karetai, Boe Gillies and Peter Pekamu-Bloxham - have been recovered.
Southland area commander Inspector Lane Todd said a decision about the approach of today's search would be made this morning.
Fixed-wing aircraft as well as Coastguard vessels would be used to conduct a more thorough shore search, he said.
The dive teams had "thoroughly searched" the vessel but no sign of the four missing people had been found.
The priority of the search was still to "do as much as we can to bring these missing people back to their families," he said.
Transport Accident Investigation Commission investigators have been in Invercargill since Friday.
Communications manager Peter Northcote said they were just beginning their inquiry.