Yesterday's meeting between Murray McCully and John Kerry in Washington DC was a sign that things between the US and New Zealand have moved to a new plane.
Their meeting was not only not dominated by talk about the relationship, it was not even dominated by talk about the Pacific.
It was about areas in which New Zealand could play a constructive role as an international citizen - and it could be seen as an investment in the future relationship.
As McCully noted in his speech a few hours earlier to the US NZ Pacific Partnership Forum: "Unlike some previous occasions, I do not intend to talk at length about the relationship. Just as couples tend to spend a good deal of time talking about their relationship when they have issues, I do not intend to do so, because we do not have issues."
Hence McCully arrived at his first meeting with the new Secretary of State with support for the thing that clearly matters most to him at present, the possibility of a two-state solution in the Middle East.