The quiz became their way of winding down after a busy day juggling homeschooling and work.
"Basically it just came out of boredom that we decided to do the engagement quiz and my general knowledge is so s*** Gavin thought he could get away with maybe two years - but no, I got it after a year," Hartigan said.
"The first time I got two out of 10. It was just me, no hints or anything like that, no multiple choice."
Male took pity on Hartigan who was struggling with the answers and kept reducing the goal from answering 10/10 correctly to eventually landing on 6/10.
The couple, who have been together for two years and been married before, continued the ritual about three to four times a week and were still doing the quiz when Auckland went back into lockdown in March 2021.
Hartigan said she had been shocked when they had been going through the quiz on March 3 and Male informed her she had got 5/10 and only had one question to go.
The next question was about a Pixar film, which being a mum she knew.
Her partner's reaction was priceless.
"All the blood drained from his face."
Hartigan said their two kids - who they have from previous relationships - were also in disbelief she had got that many right and double checked the answers.
The happy couple got engaged, but have continued the quiz now dubbed the venue quiz.
Hartigan is working towards getting another 6/10 so she can have her dream venue.