According to new 100-year-old Mary Mathis, the answer to that quintessential question is: “Don’t spend all your time trying to make other people happy.”
Mary celebrated her birthday this month at Athenree Life with those closest to her at an afternoon tea with cake and nibbles, speeches and a slide show of her life.
Other secrets to longevity she divulged were: surrounding herself with friends and family, living off the land with home kill and fresh produce... and having well-seasoned food with plenty of butter and sugar.
Grandson Cory Mathis said Mary was an incredible cook and the grandchildren were spoilt.
“She managed to trick us into eating vegetables by sneaking them into our meals. We could never tell as she popped in lots of sugar and butter, we found this out later.”
She also attributed good health to a daily toddy with friends and keeping active - she mowed lawns and kept up her immaculate garden until age 90.
Mary, of Swiss heritage, was born in Te Aroha on January 10, 1925, and was the youngest of eight. She spent most of her life with her husband Lou and son Murray on a dairy farm outside Waihi. She has two grandchildren and a great-grandchild.
She was well known in Waihi for cruising around in her shiny, red Mitsubishi Galant, which was followed in later years by her shiny, red mobility scooter.
She would often tease people on her journeys and teach people a bit of German. She loved Swiss music, including yodelling and accordion playing.
Mary was excited for her birthday bash, saying on the big day: “I can’t believe today is my birthday. I’m 100, but I feel 21!”
Mary received letters from the King, the Prime Minister and the Mayor, which were presented by Cory, who helped her open her gifts as residents shared their best wishes. The family then moved the party to the Talisman Hotel.