“They were just in the wrong place at the wrong time,” he said.
Ryan, who is described as having a love for cars and motorsports, was thriving while studying an automotive course at EIT and had a bright future ahead of him.
“While EIT was shut down during the cyclone, he went and got himself a job with MPT Concrete and was operating a digger to help clear silt from between trees in the orchards,” Catley said.
During this time, Ryan also volunteered to help an elderly couple clean up their flood-damaged homes near Brookfields.
Catley said his son was always a well-liked and respectful young boy, and while school wasn’t for him, he enjoyed his time there.
“The teachers all seemed to love his charm and wit and all the rest of it,” he said.
The most gutting thing, Catley said, was that there was so much in life that Ryan had to look forward to.
“[Ryan] had a plan; he had a future and it’s just such a shame because now we don’t know where that’s going to go.”
Mum Hayley remains at her son’s bedside in Waikato. Richard and Ryan’s younger brothers Nick, 15, and Adam, 13, travel between Napier and the hospital to visit on the weekends so the family can retain some sense of normality.
“Hayley’s being supermum and doing a great job,” Catley said.
A Givealittle page set up for the family had already reached $17,385 as of Wednesday. Catley said he and the family were overwhelmed by the support from the Hawke’s Bay community.
“I’m not one to want to take people’s money, I’ll happily provide for my family and sort it out and we’ll make it work.
“It’s been humbling and overwhelming, all the support,” Catley said.
“Everyone wants to help or do something to help us.”
While the future of Ryan’s health and knowledge of permanent damage remains uncertain, Catley said the family were taking things day by day and doing what they had to.
“Hopefully, the next few days might throw a bit more positive light on things, but we just don’t know really where it’s going to end to be fair, and that’s my biggest worry.
“I hate seeing a 17-year-old kid that was perfectly healthy and doing all the right things be suddenly thrown into this, I just think it’s so unfair.”
He said accidents such as this were tragic for all involved.
“It’s not just a life or two lives lost, it’s all the impact on everyone.”
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