There were a lot of relatives in the area, including Antony's younger brother and two older sisters, and a family meeting would be held today.
Mr Metekingi had to break the news to Antony's father Shane Christensen about the arrest.
"Antony's father arrived and knew nothing about it, so I quickly pulled him in here and told him the news and he took it well."
The accused woman's lawyer Debbie Goodlet applied for interim name suppression, given the extreme hardship that publication of the woman's identity would cause.
Ms Goodlet said the accused had yet to inform family members of her arrest.
JP Don Burney ordered the suppression of all details that could lead to the identification of the accused and she was remanded in custody by consent to April 23.