Meghan attends the 2023 Variety Power Of Women event. Photo / Getty Images
Meghan attends the 2023 Variety Power Of Women event. Photo / Getty Images
OPINION
Blink and you might have missed it. The slightly twisted torso, the glance just beyond the shoulder, the pause, and that smile.
This was the Duchess of Sussex on the red carpet at Variety’s Power of Women event in Los Angeles on Thursday evening. She attended solo, posing for the bank of photographers at the step-and-repeat (an industry term for the part of the red carpet where celebrities pose for photographers in front of host and sponsor logos).
This moment speaks volumes about the differences between Meghan’s life today and the life she left behind as a working royal; taking the time to ensure the photographers get a variety of angles which show both the woman and the dress (a taupe, off-the-shoulder design by New York-based label Proenza Schouler) in the best possible way.
The Duchess of Sussex posing on the red carpet. Photo / Getty Images
For a royal to do the same would come off as a little inappropriate. They wear beautiful clothes too, of course, and attend red-carpet events - we’ve seen the Princess of Wales at the Baftas, last year’s Earthshot Prize Awards and the Top Gun: Maverick premiere - but royals don’t behave like other famous people, says etiquette expert Myka Meier.
Even on the red carpet, “[royals] are always slightly on the move,” she says. “Sometimes at the more glamorous events, they know what they’re there for – to promote it. So I do see them stop and give that time. But it’s rare. It’s usually in passing; a stop, nod, a wave, and off they go.”
In taking her time on the step-and-repeat, Meghan showed us she no longer sees herself as royal. “This was a full-on red-carpet [moment]. Meghan’s re-debut, if you will,” says Meier. “I think she looks confident; I think she looks really happy. She looks like she wants to be there. And the over-the-shoulder pose was a major differentiator from her royal pose days. She’s back to her celebrity red carpet days.”
And as you can see below, Meghan’s current red-carpet demeanor differs from the usual royal behaviour at evening engagements, as with the Prince and Princess of Wales at the Baftas.
Prince William and the Princess of Wales at the Baftas in London. Photo / AP
As a Hollywood player – and she appears to be aligning herself with producers, rather than actors – Meghan can choose for herself whether she wants the limelight or not. But she evidently enjoys the former, and appreciates that in being invited to occasions like the Variety magazine event, there’s a trade-off. She’s expected to make her presence known – she gets to network, while Variety gets more column inches dedicated to the event thanks to her presence.
There’s a freedom here that she never had as a working royal in London. “When you’re a working royal, there’s a level of modesty,” Meier explains. “They’re representing a brand, and [Meghan] had to stay on brand; even if she wanted to wear red lipstick and red nails and do 10 over-the-shoulders, she couldn’t. Now she has freedom and flexibility to be more playful on the red carpet.”
Meier says this turn on the red carpet appeared to be second nature to Meghan: “I think she felt right at home [on the Variety red carpet]. She’s in her comfort zone – and when we look back, we can see how hard she must have been trying to maintain [respect to the monarchy] and follow the rules.
“In Hollywood, on the red carpet, there are very few rules. And I think we’re going to start seeing more and more of Meghan than ever before.”
