“It was so quick,” recalls Dave. “At the time, everything was such a blur but I remember my dad being very philosophical about it, saying he’d had a good life.”
Now, looking back, Dave wonders about the cancer that was growing insidiously inside his dad for years and has many unanswered questions.
“The cancer clearly didn’t happen overnight,” says Dickinson. “He’d been suffering with indigestion for years. Could that have been part of this? Was it a symptom he shouldn’t have ignored? Should he have gone to the doctor and even then, would it have been found?” And then comes the hardest question of all: “Could we have had more time with him?”
Oesophageal cancer is one of the six “less survivable cancers” that have a five-year survival rate of just 16 per cent - and persistent indigestion is one of the lesser-known symptoms. According to new research by the Less Survivable Cancers Taskforce, symptom-spotting is a huge problem for the six deadliest cancers - lung, liver, brain, oesophageal, pancreatic and stomach.
The research revealed only one per cent of the 2001 adults surveyed were correctly able to identify the symptoms of liver cancer, and just two and three per cent respectively able to spot symptoms of oesophageal and stomach cancer.
Anna Jewell, chair of the Less Survivable Cancers Taskforce, said it was “deeply concerning” that most people are unaware of common cancer symptoms.
More than 90,000 people are diagnosed with these six lethal cancers in the UK each year, leading to more than 67,000 deaths annually - around a half of all cancer deaths - and while 16 per cent of people, on average, survive five years after diagnosis, the taskforce is working to increase this to 28 per cent by 2029.
“Early diagnosis can make a huge and significant difference so it’s essential that people become familiar with the symptoms, and are aware of any changes in their body,” says Jewell. “Any unusual or new symptoms - even if the symptoms seem unrelated to each other - must be taken to their GP.”
Consultant oncologist Professor Karol Sikora agrees. “The earlier the cancer diagnosis the better the treatment options and the more chance of getting rid of it,” he says. “Stage 1 cancers are confined to the organ and are 90 per cent curable, Stage 2 cancers have travelled to the lymph nodes and have a cure rate of 70 per cent but with Stage 3 and 4 cancers, the cure rate drops down to 20 and 10 per cent as the cancer may be elsewhere in the body. If you have a symptom that persists and doesn’t go away after two weeks, you need to seek medical advice.”
Surgery is the first treatment for most cancers - if caught early enough - with chemotherapy and radiotherapy being the two other most effective treatments.
“It can be devastating to be diagnosed at a late stage when there are fewer treatment options,” adds Jewell. “Not only is it difficult for the person with the illness, but it has a huge impact on friends and family. It can be about fighting for more time with loved ones, which is very important.”
As well as the sudden loss of his father in 2021, Dave also lost his mother to pancreatic cancer in 2019. “She had a stomach ache for a month or so and at first, she ignored it,” says Dickinson.
Eventually, she went to her GP who sent her home thinking it was an infection, but when she turned yellow, tests discovered a tumour in her pancreas that was causing problems in her liver.
“She had a stent put in to open up the passageway between her pancreas and liver and that seemed to help and the prognosis was good,” says Dickinson. “We were optimistic she’d have treatment and live a cancer-free life.”
But the chemotherapy to shrink the tumour was problematic; Dickinson’s mum kept getting infection after infection and the chemotherapy had to be stopped. Eight months after diagnosis, she passed away, at 56.
“It was very tough because she didn’t want to talk about dying but at least we got a chance to tell her we loved her and to reassure her everything would be OK,” says Dickinson. “I do wish she’d been diagnosed earlier - you want as much time as possible - but it wasn’t meant to be.”
According to Dr Sarah Holmes, medical director at Marie Curie UK, the country’s leading end of life charity, the length and quality of time you have with a loved one after a diagnosis is crucial.
“If there’s a short space of time between diagnosis and death, people spend their time grappling with the logistics of the illness, such as doctors’ appointments, treatments, rather than making sure they’re having quality moments and conversations with their loved ones,” says Dr Holmes.
“A shock death can compound the grief. If everything happens quickly, you can’t process what’s going on and guilt can even crop up - like ‘should we have spotted something’? A longer time gives you a chance to work these questions through and adjust. It can be a very meaningful time.”
Six cancer symptoms to watch out for
Pancreatic cancer: Pain in the back or stomach area, unexpected weight loss, yellowing of the skin and whites of the eyes (jaundice).
Liver cancer: Unintentional weight loss, loss of appetite, feeling very full after eating, feeling and being sick, pain or swelling in your abdomen, jaundice (yellowing of your skin and the whites of your eyes), itchy skin, feeling very tired and weak.
Brain cancer: Headaches, nausea or vomiting, vision or speech problems, fits (seizures), mental or behavioural changes, such as memory problems or changes in personality.
Oesophageal cancer: Difficulty swallowing, persistent indigestion or heartburn, loss of appetite and weight loss, vomiting, pain or discomfort in stomach, chest or back, a persistent cough, hoarseness, tiredness and shortness of breath.
Stomach cancer: Indigestion, trapped wind, heartburn, feeling full very quickly when eating, feeling bloated after eating, nausea, stomach pain, difficulty swallowing.
Lung cancer: A cough that does not go away or gets worse, coughing up blood, chest pain that is often worse with deep breathing, coughing, or laughing, hoarseness, weight loss and loss of appetite, shortness of breath, feeling tired or weak.
- These symptoms won’t necessarily be cancer but do see a doctor to rule out anything potentially sinister.