Max Cryer was a rare and remarkable fellow, in possession of more charm than anyone else in public life in New Zealand. He was so gracious. As his long-time friend David Hartnell said, "He had class." He spoke with the precise accent of an upper-class toff from England and yet he didn't sound entirely English, there was something else in his voice, and certainly in his manner. I don't mean a New Zealandness. He was the least Kiwi male in Kiwi history. He was like a visitor from another continent and another century; he was like one of the many refined antiques from the Old World that surrounded him in his small, tasteful apartment in the Ranfurly retirement village in Mt Roskill, Auckland.
I went there for afternoon tea one day in 2019, and asked, "How old are you, Max?"
He said, "I'm not telling you. Next question!"
The newspapers gave his death last week as 86. That may not be accurate. He was a household name in New Zealand throughout the 1960s and 70s as a light entertainer forever on TV, hosting talk shows and quiz shows, as well as performing on stage (Henry Higgins in My Fair Lady, the King of Siam in The King and I), and recording about a dozen LPs of show tunes with a children's choir - but his biography remained vague, elusive. The only evidence he existed before he became famous is a photograph held at the Howick Historical Village. The date, inevitably, is inexact; c1945 is as far as it goes, and shows Max between two boys at Howick District High School. Max is wearing a tightly buttoned New Zealand Cadet Forces uniform and is already a giant: fair-haired and chubby, he towers above his friends. He said that day over tea, "I'm six feet six and have been as long as I remember."
"Max always made a point of telling me that we were in the same class," said Bob Narev. Curiously, he has no actual memory of being at school with him. I recently interviewed Bob about his experiences as a survivor of the Holocaust and Max's name came up during our conversation; it was only a few days before he died. Bob had got to know him in adult life. I asked him to describe Max, and he said, "He was delightful. Very intelligent, very interested in many things, especially linguistics. I would ring him to confer on the origin of words." Max was the author of numerous books on etymology. His research was first-rate and his enthusiasm was vast and sincere.