How did you celebrate your 57th birthday? Maybe with a trip to the doctor to stock up on HRT, or a gentle Pilates class. What you probably didn't do is chuck on a tiny pink chainmail dress held together with gold clips, and post the evidence on Instagram. This is because you are not Elizabeth Hurley, a woman with the body of a 25-year-old and the "eff you" attitude of a recalcitrant teen.
Her attitude may rile those who think women should only wear Phase Eight past the age of 45, but Hurley is merely one of many 50-something – and older – women reframing midlife not as a period to fade away gracefully into the background dressed in something comfy, but as a life stage in which they have never felt – or looked – better. Hurley regularly posts bikini snaps on social media, knowing she's the best advertisement for her swimwear brand. Other midlife women rocking bikinis on their social feeds include Salma Hayek, 55, Sharon Stone, 64, and model Paulina Porizkova, 57, who has been vocal about the age prejudices women face, most recently urging her 787k followers to stop saying women "still" look beautiful, arguing "a 'still' is like a 'but' – it ruins a compliment".
Of course, photos of Hurley – the older woman may feel – says nothing to them about their life. Many can't afford the hair, face and body maintenance required by older women in the public eye. Which begs the question: what does sexy look like for the average midlifer?
Thankfully, not all midlife women are as unrelatable as Hurley when it comes to looking good – and clearly feeling good because of their sartorial choices. Consider Sophie, the Countess of Wessex, 57, who recently wore a white semi-sheer Carolina Herrera skirt while carrying out her royal duties opening a school. Sophie is a fan of semi-sheer garments, often choosing evening dresses with chiffon overlays to provide coverage to her upper arms. Semi-sheer fabrics are a great way to expose your legs or arms without actually exposing them at all. The sexiness is all in the suggestion.