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Quiet in a loud world: How I learnt to live with shyness

By Emma Jacobs
Financial Times·
14 mins to read

A shy child who became a shyish adult, Emma Jacobs decided to investigate the science of a complex character trait.

I don’t remember much Italian from the abortive attempt I made to learn the language in Perugia at the age of 18. A few words, however, are lodged in my memory.

“Rosso, rossa!” the teacher called out to the class, pointing at my furiously blushing cheeks. Which is how I learnt Italian for red. Not that I ever said the

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