Women could almost be forgiven for thinking the secret to a fairytale romance is finding a man with a celebrity profile and living as his well-kept beloved. In this era of social media and the associated lust for a designer lifestyle, Instagram followers, and glamorous holidays, a celebrity-inspired relationship is still not something that women and girls should aspire to.
Recently we've seen two celebrity couples play out their romances; the engagement of Machine Gun Kelly and Megan Fox, and the burgeoning relationship, or publicity stunt, with Kanye West and Julia Fox. And where celebrities go, people follow.
We don't have a lot of MGKs or Kanyes in our midst, but we have our share of toxic relationships and controlling men.
To research for a column advocating why women should grow their pubic hair, I joined a guerilla Facebook group. Knowing I'd be entertained and thinking I'd be enlightened, I was instead dismayed by the volume of posts seeking advice by women and girls blind to their controlling male partners. In the end I waded in like Lynette Scavo from Desperate Housewives at her friend's wake, attempting to open the eyes of the young ladies who were, quite frankly, in damaging and controlling relationships.