COMMENT:
While men are likely to recieve socks, ties and golf tees for Father's Day, perhaps the one gift that dads might actually want is a day off from being judged about their parenting style. This week new research found that "daddy shaming" is rife and constant criticism of a father's parenting skills could have long-term negative consequences on how dads end up bonding with their children.
In February this year, more than 700 fathers with children aged 13 and under were interviewed about their parenting experiences. The results published this week in the C.S. Mott Children's Hospital National Poll on Children's Health show that many dads are having a harder time than we might realise when it comes to doing the right thing in the eyes of others.
Just over half of the fathers said that they had been criticised about their parenting style or choices, with the most common source of criticism coming from the child's other parent. Not far behind them were grandparents, who also had a lot of opinions when it came to what dads should be doing with their kids. A surprising 10 per cent of criticism came from complete strangers in public places, who felt that they needed to say something to a dad they didn't know.
Although fathers were criticised over many things, two-thirds had received criticism about how they disciplined their child and almost half had been criticized about what they chose to feed their child.