My happy place is the Auckland City Mission Christmas Lunch. It's the most beautiful bedlam you could imagine.
I've been volunteering for it for close to 20 years. It started when my daughters were little and we decided to show them that we need to give something back - do something for somebody else on a day some people struggle with.
Christmas can be a very take-take-take thing and it was a salutary lesson to my daughters that there are people out there who need to be looked after.
For some people, Christmas can be lonely and there are a lot of disadvantaged people out there who probably need one day of the year to be made a bit special.
The girls volunteered with me in their early teens, which was really good for them and they got a kick out of it, too. It was an important part of their upbringing.