Meghan Markle's half brother, Thomas Markle Jr, says she delivered him a "slap in the face" when he reached out to her for help.
Mr Markle, 51, told In Touch magazine that he sent her a letter congratulating her on her engagement to Prince Harry and apologised if his personal troubles had caused her any embarrassment.
Mr Markle was recently thrown in jail for two days after a drunken brawl with his fiancee Darlene Blount on New Year's Eve. Then, last year he was also arrested for brandishing a gun at his fiancee during another drunken fight, news.com.au reported.
His sister however never responded to his note.
Mr Markle then reached out via his lawyer to Buckingham Palace to ask for help in dealing with the extra press intrusion in his life.