Looking back last week at the whole of our lives from the perspective of our older selves is valuable as it connects us to our spiritual fuel and our values. Why we want to choose what we want for our lives. There is also much to be learned from the perspective of our younger selves. It's an opportunity to really connect with what brings us joy and happiness. To uncover innate strengths and aptitudes will serve as inspiration for future exploits.
When we are small we spend our days playing joyfully, with no thought of "wasted time" or "unproductive time" or trying to please others. We are so "us". When we are little we gravitate to activities that connect with who we really are without the pressure of social judgment. Long before we start to feel the weight of the opinions of others ("yes darling, painting/dancing/carpentry is lovely but it really is a hobby not something you should seriously pursue/study for a future/living/occupation/job)" we just do what we enjoy because we enjoy it, and that inherent enjoyment is enough.
I have a mantra for clients who are seeking their best lives and endeavouring to create their most fulfilling path. It's "follow the fun". A sense of joy and fulfilment can often be found by reconnecting with some of our childhood pleasures. It doesn't mean, of course, that you are automatically going to find a career being a rollerskating queen with a lucrative sideline in Barbie doll hairstyling, it's more a jumping-off point. A thought-starter for you to bring more playtime, hobbies and fun into your life. It's doesn't have to be a career development thing (although of course sometimes that exactly the way it goes) but more an exploration of what would bring an additional dollop of delight into your life. And who doesn't want a little more of that?
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