Is oppression at the heart of humour?
That is the message portrayed in When Jews Were Funny, a new documentary (streaming now on Netflix) that uncovers the history of Jewish humour. At its core, Jewish comedians say, is - or was - oppression. Being funny, according to comedian David Steinberg, is the survival mechanism of persecuted minorities, for all they have is "humour and each other".
In my personal experience, Jews and gays get along very well. Both of our groups have fought for freedom and equality, and both understand the positives and negatives of being in a permanent minority. I'm actually particularly drawn to Jewish friends: in the dating game, we all understand how difficult it is to find a) someone decent, within an already-limited societal pool, who isn't taken, and b) someone your other friends haven't all slept with yet. Through common hardships we bond, you see.
An important question is posited in When Jews Were Funny: without oppression or persecution, what happens to humour? Many of the comics lament their children's lack of oppression in one respect - they fear they won't grow up to be as funny as their forefathers. They'll have less to complain about (such "kvetching" is a key part of Jewish humour), and will be less observant of the differences within the world around them.
That means fewer jokes about Jewish guilt, and fewer obscure similes for the goyim to laugh at (my personal favourite: "Oy! I'm schvitzing like a pudding at a picnic!").