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Lawyer accused of 'misogynistic behaviour' after complimenting barrister on 'stunning' LinkedIn picture

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Charlotte Proudman lashed out Alexander Carter-Silk for his comments about her look.

Charlotte Proudman lashed out Alexander Carter-Silk for his comments about her look.

The high-flying female barrister at the centre of the LinkedIn sexism scandal has reportedly branded the professional social networking site the "white-collar Tinder."

Human rights barrister Charlotte Proudman said that whilst men get offered jobs on the online site she receives propositions.

Her comments come after 57-year-old lawyer Alexander Carter-Silk messaged the 27-year-old praising her "stunning" profile picture on LinkedIn.

Speaking to the Evening Standard Miss Proudman, who is taking a sabbatical to study for her PhD at Cambridge, said she wants people to know it's 'not acceptable.'

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"I have received messages liked that before, commenting on my appearance and using LinkedIn essentially as Tinder instead of high-lighting women's professional skills," she reportedly told the newspaper's Sophia Sleigh.

"My partner gets messages asking if he wants a job at hedge funds, I get propositions from men asking me out.

"I want a public apology."

Mr Carter-Silk's full 9.16am message said: "Charlotte, delighted to connect, I appreciate that this is probably horrendously politically incorrect but that is a stunning picture !!!

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"You definitely win the prize for the best LinkedIn picture I have ever seen. Always interest to understant (sic) people's skills and how we might work together.'

Responding around nine hours later, she wrote: "Alex, I find your message offensive.

"I am on Linked-in for business purposes, not to be approached about my physical appearance or to be objectified by sexist men.

"The eroticisation of women's physical appearance is a way of exercising power over women. It silences women's professional attributes as their physical appearance becomes the subject.

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"Unacceptable and misogynistic behaviour. Think twice before sending another woman (half your age) such a sexist message."

Miss Proudman, who is the same age as Mr Carter Silk's daughter , has been received a mixed reaction on social media.

Tweeting today, the barrister with Michael Mansfield QC, wrote: "Will endure misogynistic backlash that accompanies calling out sexism in hope that it encourages at least 1 woman 2 feel she doesn't need to take it."

She also posted: "Widespread, casual, demeaning behaviour directed towards women is a form of social policing, gender control & a hidden form of social violence."

In a statement released through City law message board RollOnFriday, Mr Carter-Silk, who lives in Cambridge claimed his comments had been misconstrued.

He said: "Most people post pretty unprofessional pictures on LinkedIn, my comment was aimed at the professional quality of the presentation on LinkedIn which was unfortunately misinterpreted.

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"Ms Proudman is clearly highly respected and I was pleased to receive her request to linkup and very happy to instruct her on matters which [are] relevant to her expertise, that remains the position."

His employers, Brown Rudnick, later said they were aware of Mr Carter-Silk's comments.

They said: "We have apologised for the offence caused and have no further comment to make."

Meanwhile, women have come forward with their own examples of workplace sexism.

@CRProudman thx for speaking up. I received this a few years back, and the worse is he was offended by my reply!!?! pic.twitter.com/5ah82miRc3

— Marion (@maiia76) September 9, 2015

Well done for sharing your story @CRProudman Proud to stand as a professional women! Here's the latest creep.. pic.twitter.com/YXAHqFvNwN

— Lucy Menghini (@LucyMenghini23) September 9, 2015

My own experience of the bullshit @CRProudman faced. Exposing it must continue #everydaysexism pic.twitter.com/qF6qnivlfn

— Lyndsey Duff (@Duffington_Post) September 9, 2015

.@Alison_McGovern's sexist letter reminded me of this one I received in 2009 which I've had on my wall ever since! pic.twitter.com/53fMBCW16Z

— Jessica Asato (@Jessica_Asato) August 24, 2015

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