Striking up the courage to ask a girl to the school ball is hard enough.
But today's students are putting their fears aside and going to new extremes that involve dance routines, home-made signs and the classic roses and chocolates in hand.
Prom-posals, or ball proposals, have become increasingly popular particularly in the US, where a programme dubbed Promposal is now a big hit on MTV.
Now the craze has reached New Zealand school gates, with many teenagers capturing extravagant ball proposals on video and posting them online.
At Otahuhu College, South Auckland, they have become a bit of a thing over the past few months.
Head prefects Simili Moala and Jasmine Cook are among students to feature in a video that has started to go viral.
The pair, who are good friends, decided earlier it would be nice for the head boy and head girl to go to the ball together.
But Simili, 18, wanted to do something unique for his date and knew it would be a first for their school - for a head boy to give a ball proposal to the head girl.
Otahuhu College principal Neil Watson said they had seen several proposals to the school ball, which is in September.
"We've had some boys from some other schools come over and serenade some of our young women too, so that's quite fun."
Watson said the proposals had also been a hit with staff, who were scared their own partners would have higher expectations of them after seeing the videos.
Asked whether he was ever that romantic in high school, he laughed: "No. We were never that clever.''