A New Zealand bride-to-be has been accused of insensitivity after she took a tongue-in-cheek approach to her bridesmaid proposal.
While most brides opt to send their friends a card and gift in the mail, or simply pop the question over a coffee or cocktail, this woman apparently decided to enlist the help of a pregnancy test to secure a bridesmaid for her big day.
The Daily Mail reported the recipient of the "invite" posted the photograph on a private wedding shaming Facebook group.
On the front of the First Response pregnancy kit box, she wrote in black marker: "I'm late" followed by "asking" in smaller letters lower down.
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