Claire McLintock shares the view from her window.
This is the window seat, which is my favourite seat in the house. I've got a 300-degree view of what's going on. When I get home from chemo, I'll always come and sit on the window seat and have a cup of tea and a melting moment. And the doggie comes and I just sit here and I listen to a podcast or watch something on the iPad or whatever.
I haven't been very well this year. I'm better now, but I was pretty sick at the beginning of the year, for a few months. I really didn't go out much, so I would sit here from really early in the morning. I'd be awake about 5 or 6. And so I would come out here in the morning and the house was quiet and the sun was coming up slowly. And I'd have a cup of tea, sit under a blanket and then just have a quiet start to the day, with no one else bothering me.
It's a sad diagnosis, it's a terrible diagnosis, but it doesn't mean to say you need to live a sad and terrible life. In fact, what you need to do is make the most of the opportunities that you're given. Decide if you want to do them, and then do them well. Live life as well as you can. And you don't have to be positive all the time. You can be positive all the time, but just take the time to examine if you're feeling sad, and acknowledge it, and you will come out of it.
I think it's made my relationships with my family so much better. We still fight and stuff like that. I had a really great argument with my daughter just last week. But we make up and we talk about it. We talk about why I might get angry. So it's much better. I mean, I think they would say that, too, but it also makes me cherish everything that I have.