Dear D&P: Why won't my boyfriend sleep with me?

'Why doesn't my boyfriend want to sleep with me?' Photo / 123RF

I have been seeing a man for four months, and we have a wonderful relationship and fun, but have never slept together. He says goodnight, gives me a hug and that's it. I am confused.

Denise says:

Where did you meet him? If it was the internet, was he "looking for love" or just "friendship"? He owes it to you to tell you what he is expecting, and ask what you were expecting. If it is not the same thing, it is not going to work. If you want hanky panky, get a new man.

Pebbles says:

Maybe he's confused about his sexuality and is still exploring his feelings, or he's conservative and/or religious and is waiting for marriage. In which case I would say run for the hills, as you really need to try the milk before you buy the cow.