Catholics use the word "mystery" and, as a Catholic, I hold the celebration of Easter as a mystery central to my life. Easter is the metaphor for personal development.
Most of us know the Easter story. A good holy man is crucified, dies and comes alive again in greater form. Crucifixion and resurrection belong together, which is why the day of torment is called "Good" Friday. Goodness comes out of this. What is resurrected will be greater than what has died.
The Easter story has deep meaning for many people. For me, it is an important parable about growth. When I look back over a long life, it is not pleasure and success that fill me with great gratitude, but the times of pain and loss that emptied me to make room for something new. I am grateful for the friends who helped me through those times. I am also grateful that I could not project the pain on other people. I realise now, that blaming others would have kept me longer in the "tomb".
Whether we are religious or not, we all have our own Easter stories. There will be times when we were emptied so that something new could be given. It is the way of growth. And its fruits are wisdom and compassion. When I see someone with those qualities, I know that person has suffered.
This year I move towards Easter knowing that I am going blind. Will that be a cross? I don't know. I may well come to the state of being unable to write at all. Will that make me depressed? Perhaps the loss of vision will be resurrected as inner sight. I don't know that either, but I know how spiritual growth works and I trust it.
If you are reading this, you may wish to look at the story of your own life. Sit for some moments of reflection. Chances are, you will highlight the happy times and skip over the times you call "bad". Try reflecting without that kind of judgment. Focus on memories of the times you felt helpless with grief, pain, rejection, anguish, loneliness. Choose the words that describe how you felt. Sometimes, people talk about being "gutted". Did your experience make you feel hollowed-out? How did you react? Examine all this from the safe distance of now.
Then reflect on what happened after the crucifixion. How did you come alive again? Did you discover that the cup had been emptied so that it could be filled with something greater? Did you sense newness in your life? This is what Catholics call "the way of the Cross" - and it is all about growth.
Happy Easter, dear friend!