A few months before novel coronavirus cases started to appear, a trip to the Red Sea and a taxi brought together Maria Saavedra, 37, a law administrator from Luxembourg, and Abdala Ahmed, 27, a businessman from Alexandria, Egypt.
In October 2019, Saavedra, feeling sad and frustrated with dating, decided to join her friends on a trip to Dahab, an Egyptian coastal town known for diving. Saavedra said she was sitting alone near the water, reflecting on her troubles, when Ahmed suddenly appeared.
Like Saavedra's friends, Ahmed had been diving nearby, and the two shared a taxi cab back to an area near her hotel and his dive centre. On that ride, Ahmed started up a brief conversation — and when they ran into each other again in the same area the next day, he asked for her contact information.
"Since that day, we haven't missed a day talking or chatting," Ahmed said.
By December, they were in a relationship, and Saavedra visited Ahmed in Alexandria that month. The pair had planned to reunite in the spring but were thrown off course by the pandemic. They spent the next nine months apart but in near constant communication, Ahmed said, consoling each other through hardships, lockdown and home-schooling Saavedra's two children.
"I don't know how I would have done it if I had not met him," Saavedra said in a video interview. She turned to Ahmed, saying, "You saw me at my lowest in life. You really did."
By September, Saavedra was able to join Ahmed in Egypt. He proposed in Dahab, and they were married in Alexandria in December. While they currently live on separate continents, Ahmed plans to move to Luxembourg, Saavedra said, adding they will, eventually, have a second wedding in Europe. "I think the reason we have lasted was because we always tried to be thankful for having met instead of questioning that we were separated," she said.
A romance built on social media
Although Greg Marshall and Jade Phan met as college students near Seattle in 2018, they didn't get to know each other until March 2020, when the pandemic forced them to attend classes remotely, separated by thousands of miles.
Marshall, 20, and Phan, 22, had both transferred from Everett Community College to Washington State University and found themselves taking classes, doing class work and socialising online. With Marshall in Seattle and Phan in Can Tho, Vietnam, they initially bonded on social media, over a photo of a miniature pool table that he shared on Instagram, linking with her interests in miniature models.
The post started a relationship based on daily FaceTime calls, text messages and Snapchats between them, they said.
"Because of the time zone difference, I would stay up all night just to talk to her," Marshall said. "I felt like Jade was right there with me the whole entire time."
They remained hopeful that, despite the pandemic, travel would open up again. By July, Phan was able to take a flight back to the United States to begin classes and to be with Marshall. Their reunion at the airport was also shared online — the video of their first ever kiss has been seen more than 150,000 times.
"The more I know about him, the more I know that he's the one for me," Phan said.
A voice leads to love
Standing against the blooming cherry blossoms in Central Park in April, Carolina Morales lowered her mask so that her date, Joe Weel, could see her face. It was an important moment for the Manhattan couple, who met on Bumble two weeks earlier and decided to give dating an honest try during the first wave of the pandemic.
Before meeting in person, Morales, 29, a lawyer, and Weel, 27, a software engineer, got to know each other over the phone and through video chats, and the couple realised their values were aligned, Morales said. The pandemic had kept them cautious, talking only remotely, but Weel said he could hear something special in Morales' voice.
"I really like the voice of a woman that matters a lot to me, because you have to hear it your whole life," he said. "This one is good."
Over the next several months, the couple replaced virtual dates with outings to Governors Island, Roosevelt Island and other parks across the city, and often cooked for each other. In a year in which relationships were pushed to their limits, Morales and Weel said they were grateful to have found each other. "We feel terrible about all the tragedy that happened this year, but for us, it's really been the best year of our lives," Morales said.
Something new after decades of experience
When lockdowns began last March, Vickie Green started making masks and offering them to the senior members of her church in Elizabethtown, Kentucky.
One was Garry Knight. They had known each other for 16 years, but the small gesture led to texting and phone calls, and for weeks, Green, 67, and Knight, 74, bonded over their love of gospel quartets and travel. Knight asked her on a socially distanced date, and the pair met at Chick-fil-A, where they parked their cars and talked for three hours, Green said. Around that time, she said, her granddaughter had noticed a new pep in her step.
Both Knight and Green had lost their spouses in recent years and found that they could work through grief together and share a newfound joy. "After a couple of weeks, I realised I wasn't crying myself to sleep every night," Green said. "That's a hard thing to go through, losing a spouse of 48 years. And Garry had been married 49 1/2 years. Together, we've got about 100 years' worth of experience."
In June, Knight proposed. Two months later, they tied the knot in a socially distanced ceremony. Knight said the couple had learned a new lesson in the pandemic. "It could be found anytime, anywhere," he said. "Nothing has to stop love."
Written by: Derrick Bryson Taylor
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