Annalisa Mastrofilippo has had to cancel her wedding because of coronavirus restrictions. Photo / 123RF
Annalisa Mastrofilippo has had to cancel her wedding because of coronavirus restrictions. Photo / 123RF
A bride-to-be has started a petition urging Australian state governments to reconsider their restrictions around weddings, calling it "blatant prejudice" that's stopped her from moving into her new home.
Annalisa Mastrofilippo, 24, told news.com.au she started the Change.org petition, which has gathered thousands of signatures, out "of frustration and to give all people in my position a voice".
The petition is calling for the government to ease coronavirus restrictions around weddings and allow couples to wed as they see fit.
"For too long couples have been left in the dark with no road maps and end in sight. This is the most important day of my life and I want it to be perfect and everyone deserves their wedding to be done how they wish," Mastrofilippo said.
She said her and her fiance, from Sydney, had to cancel their wedding scheduled for August this year and move to April 2021. But she said the disruption has had a financial cost, been an emotional burden, and caused other practical problems.
"In our culture and with my religious values, there are so many things that can't happen until we're married, we can't move in together to the home we have purchased, we can't go on holidays and we can't start a family, which is most important to us," she said.
Mastrofilippo added the limit on wedding guests in NSW has also caused problems for her.
Annalisa Mastrofilippo said since delaying their wedding, the couple cannot move into the home they have bought. Photo / news.com.au
She said the cap of 150 people in NSW meant "we can't invite all of our close family members let alone friends. My fiance and I are very fortunate that we come from large Italian families with multiple generations. How do I tell one relative they can come and another relative they can't come?"
"This has been the most stressful and emotional thing we have experienced, people think it's just easy to postpone a wedding and tell your family and friends they can't come and to put your future on hold while people can go out to the races and to shopping centres and food courts and restaurants etc."
"By these restrictions' logic, I could just tell my 350 guests to meet me at the pub after my ceremony and that would be okay? I just think if there were to be an outbreak, there is more chance of it happening at a footy game."
She said she was lucky her wedding venue, Navarra Venues, had been understanding throughout the ordeal.
The petition started by the bride-to-be demands state premiers "open our weddings" and has gathered thousands of signatures in just a few days. At the time of publishing there were 600 signatures.
"Brides and grooms of Australia can't take this blatant prejudice towards the wedding industry any longer," the petition demands.
"It's time all of Australia band together and give couples the day they have planned and deserve!"
"We need to make a change! Allow weddings in Australia to revert back to normal prior to these inconsiderate Covid-19 restrictions! Including, church numbers, pre wedding at home festivities and receptions!"
Mastrofilippo also took issue with particular activities being banned at weddings, including dancing, singing and limits on the amount of guests (this varies from state to state).
Mastrofilippo said part of her frustration came from the fact that people in NSW are currently allowed to visit "shopping centres, restaurants, racecourses, bars and pubs, all of which are packed with strangers, but I can't have my guests join me at my wedding which is in my opinion a much safer and controlled environment in comparison to everything else I listed".
