Canada has found a way to get dads to do more housework

How to get dads to help out more around the house. Photo / 123RF

We've long known the importance of giving women the chance to spend some few weeks - or months - away from work and with their newborns. It turns out that giving new dads the opportunity to spend some time with their new kids is not only important for the short term but also has huge consequences for the family dynamic later on.

Research out of Canada being released this week shows that a small change in policy - making it "normal" and expected for fathers to take parental leave - not only led men to spend more time with their new babies, but to also do more housework and pick up more child-care responsibilities down the road.

The study, Daddy's Home! by the Council on Contemporary Families, examined what happened to families when the government of Quebec in 2006 introduced a "daddy-only" quota and increased the pay in the paid parental leave policy. The share of eligible fathers taking leave at all jumped from 21.3 per cent to 53 per cent, a 250 per cent increase. And the length of time fathers took off to care for infants rose from two weeks, on average, to five weeks.

But perhaps the most surprising, and powerful finding was this: By 2010, the men in Quebec who had taken the "daddy-only" leave were spending 23 per cent more time doing housework and child care than were men in other parts of Canada without the quota.

"I was struck by the magnitude of the effect that this reform had, given how small and relatively cheap the change was," said study author Ankita Patnaik, a PhD candidate in economics at Cornell University.

"And the persistence of the change over time was striking. If you intervene at this critical time, when parents are trying to assign household roles for the first time, you establish more gender-neutral habits. And they stick."

Researchers have long argued that giving only mothers time off after the birth, adoption or fostering of a child reinforces the cultural belief that "mother knows best" when it comes to kids, and contributes to men spending more time at work, earning more and getting promoted more often - and women doing the bulk of the housework and child care.

The study found that, just as fathers who had taken leave under the daddy quota were spending a half-hour a day more at home, mothers were spending a half-hour a day less at home, and had increased their time at work by 9 per cent. Still, Patna said, mothers reorganised their time at home, spending less time on housework and more time on child care.

Canada gives mothers up to one year of unpaid, job-protected leave; for fathers, it gives 37 weeks that can become paid leave through an employment insurance program. Under this system, fewer than 20 per cent of Canadian fathers take leave. In 2006, Quebec increased the paid leave benefit from 55 per cent of take-home pay to 70 per cent, up to a maximum of US$767 a week, and established a five-week "daddy quota."

Although surveys show that millennial generation men, in particular, say they want to be more involved fathers than their own dads were, Patnaik said the size of the increase in those who took leave reflected more than a generational shift in fathers' attitudes.

"I identified an immediate jump between January 1, 2005, and January 1, 2006," she said.

"It's incredibly unlikely that everyone all of a sudden had egalitarian beliefs. But I do think the 'papa quota' made a difference. It sends the message that this is what we, as a society, think dads should be doing. This is what's normal."

Some 95 countries offer some form of paid parental leave to fathers, Patnaik said. And those with some of the highest rates of fathers taking parental leave have the "daddy-only" quota that Quebec instituted or other policies aimed at men. Great Britain is instituting a new policy this month to promote more shared leave between mothers and fathers. In Sweden, where 45 percent of fathers took paid parental leave in 2013, parents receive a financial bonus if they not only share the leave but also share the time equally.

In Iceland, mothers used to have long maternity leaves, and three years later, were still responsible for doing most of the child care. When the country adopted a "daddy days" quota, giving mothers and fathers three months of paid leave each, and three months for the family to share - nine months total - Iceland mandated that if fathers didn't use their three months, the family would lose the time.

Now, 90 per cent of fathers take paid leave in Iceland. And three years after the birth of a child, 70 per cent of the parents who lived together equally shared child care.

Schulte writes about Good-Life: work-life issues, time, productivity, gender and income inequality. She is the author of the best-selling Overwhelmed: Work, Love and Play when No One has Time.