A Kiwi woman married a stranger on Christmas Day after meeting for the first time at an airport in their wedding gear - and boarded a plane to Las Vegas. Photo / SWNS
Two strangers married on Christmas Day after meeting for the first time at an airport in their wedding gear - and boarded a plane to Las Vegas.
Kiwi woman Sarah Edwards, née Elliott, 34, matched with Paul Edwards, 36, on dating app Bumble and within days decided to get hitched.
They matched online on December 15th and exchanged messages and spoke to each other for the first time on December 22nd.
The loved-up couple spoke again on the 23rd had decided to marry - despite never meeting face-to-face.
They committed to each other and booked a wedding venue - the Bellagio Hotel and Casino.
Meeting for the first time at Gatwick Airport on Christmas Eve, the duo boarded a plane in full wedding gear and jetted off to Las Vegas to get married.
Sarah, a nanny originally from Wellington but who lives in Tunbridge Wells, Kent, said: "We instantly clicked - there was an undeniable connection.
"I thought it was funny that his name was Paul as I currently share a house with two other people called Paul - so I said: 'I've already got two Paul's in my life, why not add a third?'
"He replied to my message saying: 'Apparently the third Paul is always the best and I don't have a Sarah in my life so I guess that would make you number one.'
"We spoke on the phone on Saturday night for two-and-a-half hours and then again on Sunday morning for an hour-and-a-half.
"Sunday evening we were chatting away on the phone and calling each other for three hours.
"I can't remember who brought it up, but one of us said: 'We get on so well - maybe we should get married'.
"I haven't told my family yet. As they're on the other side of the world we don't talk as often as we should."
Dad-of-two Paul, from Chichester, West Sussex, has two daughters aged 13 and 15 from a previous relationship, and is also yet to tell his children about his new wife-to-be.
Sarah has been married before, but it only lasted for six months.
Sarah says the pair get on so well because they are so alike.
She said: "Paul's personality is exactly like mine. We're both very bubbly, open, honest, we'd do anything for anyone.
"He's caring, loyal, silly, a wind up, playful, intelligent and of course, spontaneous and impulsive.
"You think you know people, but it doesn't matter how long you've been with someone for, they can surprise you and not in a good way.
"I'd been with my ex for three years and he turned out to not be capable of treating me right. You just don't know.
"So this time I thought: 'Why not take a chance and have a bit of faith?'"
Paul said: "It's absolutely mental.
"If you'd have asked me nine days ago whether I would meet someone, start talking to them and then go running off to Vegas to get married without meeting face-to-face I'd say you were crazy.
"I don't know what happened, it's so weird as both of radius' on Bumble weren't even that close so I have no idea how we came across each other in the first place.
"Sarah just seemed really lovely, when she first phoned me we spoke for over three hours. Sarah and Paul hope to move in together when they return to the UK, however she is currently still living with her ex-partner and they are in the process of selling the house they own together.
Sarah said: "My ex and I broke up in February,
"Paul and I have tried to talk about moving in together, but it's difficult because of my current situation.
"Hopefully it'll only be a few more weeks before my house sale goes through.
"Whatever happens, we'll make it work - even if we have to rent somewhere.
"Going forward, I wasn't sure if I wanted to date someone who had children, but Paul has two.
"But the next day I woke up and sat there for a little while and I thought: 'Is this really going to work?'
"I started having doubts in my head. I was unsure and anxious about the whole thing.
"I messaged Sarah and she told me to call her.
"We spoke on the phone and I voiced my concerns. Within 10 minutes she had calmed my anxiety down to the point it disappeared - no one has ever been able to do that before.
"We don't get frustrated with each other, we can keep up with each other.
"We have a lot in common and they are the things that matter most.
"Our tastes are different - for example, I get most of my clothes from Next and she says it reminds her of her ex and has told me: 'You can never buy anything from there again'.
"I know she was mostly joking but I really don't mind - I'm easy going.
"When it comes down to little things I'm happy to stand back, but I'm also very highly opinionated if i believe in something strongly.
"With every single relationship I've had before the element that's always been missing is communication and the openness.
"Now I just think: 'What have I actually really got to lose?'
"If we have a shotgun wedding and split up in six months, a week, a day - what have I lost in the grand scheme of life? Nothing.
"I've believed in something and had faith in something. It's let me just go away from the social norms.
"I've gone on dates through dating apps and it's all very nicey-nicey with general chit chat, but there's no realness in it anymore.
"If you look back to second world war type era, in the past, people met once or twice maybe - and wouldn't be on the phone to each other all the time - and they'd get married and would work hard at it.
"If we're going through a relationship as a married couple we'll be automatically saying we'll put as much effort into it as possible.
"We are both true believers in marriage and what it means.
"She had the idea for us to meet at the airport in our wedding gear. I asked her: 'Are you really going to turn up in your wedding dress?'
"Sarah said: 'Yeah if we're going to do it, let's do it properly.'
"I did warn her it's a 10-hour flight and her dress might get a bit crumpled.
"All my friends have been really supportive because they've seen me at my lowest point and now they see me back to my normal self in such a short space of time and they are happy for me.
"They have said: 'You are absolutely nuts, but we love you and we want you to be happy. She sounds amazing and we can't wait to meet her.'
"No body has been negative at all in any way, shape or form on my side - I've got the best friends that a person could ask for.
"I've got two daughters - I'm going to see them tomorrow to take them for lunch - and I'll tell them and ask their opinion.