The reading of Middlemarch is a little like learning of the death of Kennedy - it's a time that sticks in our memories. I finished my copy, an elderly hardback borrowed from the library, in National Women's Hospital after the birth of my third child. It was probably not a wise time to be tackling Eliot's opus, fogged as I was with hormones and exhaustion. Writer and journalist Rebecca Mead first read the great 19th century classic at 17, and has read it again at five-yearly intervals.
"Reading is sometimes thought of as a form of escapism," she observes, "and it's a common turn of phrase to speak of getting lost in a book. But a book can also be where one finds oneself."
And that has been her experience with this novel, which has spoken to her at every stage of her life: "The book was reading me, as I was reading it."
The Road to Middlemarch began as an essay written for the New Yorker and retains a kind of journalistic, intimate tone. George Eliot's life, her childhood, her enduring relationship with writer and critic George Lewes, her travels and other books take centre stage, with Mead herself always hovering close by.
Born in England, Mead has spent most of her adult life in America. Like Eliot, she supported herself through writing, met her husband relatively late and step-mothered three of his sons. Unlike Eliot, Mead bore a son of her own and leads a life not so different from millions of women around the world today. There are occasions when the juxtapositioning of her personal experience becomes wearisome, even though the authorial personae is engaging, warm, and passionately in love with her subject.