The death of her sister from a drug overdose, the end of a marriage, the loss of a baby - all are dealt with in a few workmanlike lines, then Coddington moves on quickly to the subject she's more comfortable with: clothes and the people who work with them.
You may think her a cold fish but there are a few chinks where her feelings show through - when she's talking about her beloved cats, for instance, or in the chapter that deals with the death of her close friend, magazine editor Liz Tilberis.
This is a pretty straightforward read. After an intro that recaps on The September Issue, Coddington takes us back to her upbringing in the 1940s and 50s in a seaside hotel run by her parents on the Welsh island of Anglesey.
Enchanted by the glamour of the movies and the fashions in her older sister's copies of Vogue, at 18, she escapes to a London modelling school, dreaming of beautiful clothes and interesting people.
Coddington's period as a 1960s' It-girl, posing for legendary photographers and racing round with rich young men in sports cars, faltered when her left eyelid was sliced off in a crash.
She was never going to be happy simply wearing the clothes anyway. Fascinated by style, she began to carve out a career on the other side of the camera, as a fashion editor.
Now 71, and Vogue's creative director, Coddington has seen a lot of fashions come and go.
Her insights into how the industry, and the magazines that record it, have changed are honest and interesting.
If readers are hoping she'll dish the dirt on Wintour, however, they'll be let down, as she doesn't tell us much we don't already know.
Neither has she gone into detail about how her own creative process works.
So there are no big surprises - aside from the revelation that Coddington relies on a pet psychic to help with her cats - and no great depth.
Yet there's enough to interest any reader with a passion for fashion or magazines. Grace: A Memoir is a pleasantly entertaining book, a hopscotch through 50 years of the fashion world and the inspirational woman who has lived at its centre for all that time.