"Whatever happens we may be called to keep the peace again."
Mr Takamore had been living in Christchurch for 20 years before his 2007 death and Ms Clarke, the executor of his estate, planned to bury him there.
His Tuhoe family travelled to Christchurch and against Ms Clarke's wishes brought his body back to Kutarere where he was buried beside his father.
Since then a bitter legal war between Ms Clarke and the Takamores has waged with the Supreme Court having the final say in December 2012 when an appeal to keep Mr Takamore in Kutarere was dismissed.
Mr Takamore's sister Josie Takamore said up to 30 police officers were on the road near Kutarere Marae at about 5am yesterday for the planned disinterment -- although police say there were far fewer officers. She said police arrived at the urupa [cemetery] and spoke to a kaumatua, who refused to move.
"He was saying, 'No, absolutely no way you're moving my moko'," Ms Takamore said.
"We had blocked the road down the bottom to the urupa just so [any] digger and excavator couldn't get through."
Eastern Bay of Plenty area commander Inspector Kevin Taylor said police abandoned the planned disinterment for safety reasons.
"Our aim was for the disinterment to be carried out in a dignified and non-confrontational way. Safety was a priority and when it became clear that tensions were escalating, and there was a risk that the safety of the contractors might be in jeopardy, a decision was made to withdraw from the site."
Up to 60 whanau members were at the marae on Thursday and yesterday morning. Most had gone home by noon yesterday to rest but the whanau planned to take turns sitting by the gravesite of Mr Takamore if necessary.
"We're tired but we're still on edge and still have our guard up in case they come back. One whiff of them here and all it will take is one phone call and we'll all be up there again," Ms Takamore said.
"This has opened new wounds but there's a positive feeling among us, this whanau feeling that we all believe absolutely that he needs to stay here," she said. "This has been really stressful for us, year after year and we're still missing him. I miss his laugh but the biggest part we're missing is being able to see him any more."
Kutarere Marae kuia Waiharakeke Te Rau-Aroha Whitewood said a meeting was held this week where the elders said they would support the Takamore family in what they decided.
- APN, additional reporting Katee Shanks and Alison King
