Herald travel editor Winston Aldworth was in Seattle as the city marked the 20th anniversary of the death of Kurt Cobain.
He's gone and they haven't forgotten - but they've clearly moved on.
In hip, happy Seattle, on the 20th anniversary of Kurt Cobain's suicide, there were no candlelight vigils and no displays of public grief. The only Nirvana T-shirts on display were in the excellent Experience Music Project museum of pop culture.
In that cathedral of cool, the relics of Nirvana are displayed with reverential grace. The cardigan Cobain wore and the drumsticks broken by Dave Grohl sit alongside some stuff about the guy who played bass (Union of Bass Player members, send your complaints to "the editor, TimeOut, NZ Herald").
"What's that, Dad?" asks a young kid.