Why we tell lies
Lies are not usually acts of evil, according to Gizmod. A study suggests people asked to make a snap decision will often lie or cheat for their own self-interest. University of Amsterdam psychology researcher Shaul Shalvi put it this way: "When people act quickly, they may attempt to do all they can to secure a profit - including bending ethical rules and lying. Having more time to deliberate leads people to restrict the amount of lying and refrain from cheating."
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Lover's dilemma
Seeking advice, "Frustrated but Happy" writes: "For the past four months, I've been seeing a wonderful, smart, funny man. My mother is worried because I'm 22 and he's 32. He also has two small children from a previous affair and spent 10 months in prison. I understand her concern and anxiety - I do! But should that stop me from pursuing the first man I have ever truly loved?" The Bad Advisor replies: "Dear Frustrated but Happy, nothing should stop you from pursuing the first man you have ever truly loved, least of all the fact that you're so unsure about this guy that you're asking a total stranger whether you need parental permission to date him!"
(Source: Theestablishment.co)