Jon and Gill Flewers had big plans for their plot of land in Malvern, a quiet country estate in the UK.
But Kevin McCloud wasn't afraid to ask some big, and very awkward, questions about their £600,000 ($1.1m) building plans in last night's episode of Grand Designs.
"We're trying to bring some of the ideas we saw in New Zealand here," Jon told McCloud.
"Clean, sleek lines, simple forms."
Gill agreed, saying their new family home was inspired by four years the couple spent living in New Zealand.
"You'd be foolish or fearless to buy a plot of land on the other side of the planet that you've never seen," he griped.
Then, once McCloud set foot on it, he critiqued the 45-degree slope of the hill.
"The plot they've bought here looks like a whole heap of trouble to me," he said.
"It's one of the steepest plots I've seen."
Finally, he questioned why the living areas were at the back of the house, failing to take advantage of the site's beautiful views.
They weren't the only problems for Jon, who quit his job as an RAF pilot to build the house himself after more than a dozen builders turned down the job, saying it was too difficult.
"I don't have a plan in life, but when I decide to do something, I jolly well do it and I don't give up," he said.
Finally, the house finished but all their money gone, Jon and Gill faced one final problem: a £40,000 bill to connect the house to water mains that they could have avoided if they'd spent £24 on a map.
"I've spent everything," said Jon. "I never anticipated it being this hard. People have said to me, 'Jon don't be down - it's only a house'.
"To me it's all the other things, the money, the career that has been put on hold for so many years, the move from the other side of the world, all those things that we gave up.
"The things we wanted to bring back that we had over there were the ability to have open plan living, we've got an amazing view, and building on the side of the hill, which they do without even blinking ... and yet it was so hard to do here. I think it completely delivers."
Jon wasn't quite so sure.
"It's been a really hard journey, mentally, emotionally, physically. It's still fresh. It's beautiful but I'm not sure it's been worth the sacrifices."
There's one thing Jon would do differently: "Go and stand on the land first."
• Grand Designs screens on Three on Tuesday nights.