All week we've seen the footage. A woman, swaying erratically in a cluttered garage, making a series of moaning sounds and looking deeply f***ed up.
She's present in the video, but also absent - both through her vacation of her senses and the way the coverage shaped her as this tragic casualty, a lesson rather than a human.
Sunday morning, The Hui changed all that. She now has a name, Ngaetu Grover, and is speaking for herself rather than being discussed as an object. We learn about her early life, her idyllic "kura days", the loving, stable family she came from. We learn of her enthusiasm for kapa haka, see her performing, hear about the way she looked out for her brother - the same one who would eventually post that footage in despair for her.
Then we were introduced to a critical juncture in her life: the birth of a child at just 16, while she was still in high school. "It just felt like you had to grow up so fast," Grover says sadly.
The strain of raising a child while still a child herself took a familiar toll. Her descent into addiction, her disappearing for weeks and months, the theft charges she faced at the Waitakere District Court this week. But all that came later - after we had gotten to know her as a person, rather than a victim or statistic.